If you could be any fictional character, who would you be and why?
(Last day to submit Blogs 21-23 is April 3rd)
Somewhere in the universe right now, just about everything is happening. Right now, someone is dying. Right now, someone is entering this world. Right now, someone is having the time of their life. Right now, someone is going through a tough time. Right now, someone is doing their blog post for their AP class at Henry Clay High School. This idea is something that always interests me to think about. Just imagine, almost anything you can think of, chances are it's happening at this very moment somewhere in the world. That's crazy..... Right now, someone is trying to write a blog post but can't think of anything else to say so is just trying to get to that mark of 150 words. Hopefully that person suceeds....
Embarrassment and shame are two emotions that can really screw you over.
Have you ever done something, or messed up royally and needed help but were too embarrassed to ask?
Or have you ever been failing a class and needed to switch out or get more help, but just couldn't bear to?
Or have you ever been too much of a weenie to own up to your mistakes, so that instead of asking for help your plans just crash and burn?
Same.
However, it's not often that I put myself in these types of situations because my mom gave me the best piece of advice ever, a "golden rule" if you will...
"THE FIRST RULE OF SUCCESS IS TO ASK"
When I first heard this beautiful saying all I could think was "ha, yeah right". But my mom is old and wise and pretty darn cool and that weirdo was right.
There have been so many times where that rule has saved my ass. Not necessarily on big things, but just being able to not be scared to ask for things that you need is very liberating.
In fact, I'm not scared to ask for what I want either. And that's freaking awesome because I'm not scared of getting what I want.
Just trust me on this, the next time you're in a situation where you have to ask, just ask.
If you don't ask the answer will always be no, but if you do ask you're likely to get exactly what you want.
Alright, it's not like I'm untalented and I don't know how to do anything, it's more like I don't kmow what to teach.
So here's two fun(ish?) things that you can now know how to do:
How to give someone a great birthday gift (for a girl!)
1) Obviously you're friends or at least acquainted with this person so you probably have some idea of what to get them. (If you are not even acquainted with this person then you should not give them a birthday gift because then they'll think you're weird)
2) The next step is to figure out what to give them, you can do in two different ways. The first way is to subtly bring up stuff they might like, like make-up, food, scents, artists, etc. In fact you could even ask their other friends about what that may want so what you get them will be a total surprise. Or the other way is to get a list of things that they like. I personally like to use the second method.
Here's what I usually ask:
-what's your favorite candy/snack?
-what make-up can you not live without?
-is there anything on your make-up wish list?
-do you like earrings? Like scale of 1-10
-what are your favorite scents?
-okay top three things you're obsessed with, go
3) It is now time to make a trip to your local pharmacy (walgreens, cvc, rite-aid). That's the beauty of these gifts, you can literally get everything you need to give your friend a good gift for like 30$. So go pick out a bag of their favorite candy or snack, and some new make-up.
*optional step*
If you want ro make this present extra special without paying a lot or having to make something all heartfelt or whatever you can go get them a t-shirt, or some jewelry, or a candle. It costs a little more but it'll just make your friends happier.
4) Alright, if you aren't someone who subscribes to ipsy or any other monthly make-ul service then you might want to invest in some small, stylish, and inexpensive make-up bags. I have, like, 30 or something.
5) Now you're ready to put your present together. I always open the make-up and put it in a make-up bag I think that the person would like (ex: I gave Tori a chic black one and Aditi a cute white one with blue anchors). Then you can put their make-up bag and their snack in a mini present bag and put some tissue paper on top. If you got them a t-shirt or a candle or anything like that make sure it's on the bottom so no snacks are harmed.
6) Go give your awesome present to the birthday girl and treat yourself to extra cake.
*optional step part two*
Remember when I said making a present that's heart felt? Well I think that the best heart felt present is cookies or art. And obviously the former is easier. So to make freaking delicious cookies, chocolate chip or otherwise, look up "Hershey's Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookies". This recipe not only makes delicious cookies but is also extremely reliable. Happy baking.
Something I'm good at: Having fun with my siblings
Step 1: See what each one of them is doing. A lot of the time my older brother is at school or work and my younger brother is playing xbox so it comes down to me and my younger sister.
Step 2: Know what each one of them likes to do. All 3 of them are always up to playing some basketball or some NBA 2K16 (even my sister...she LOVES John Wall and has highlight reels of her basketball games). My sister loves Mario Kart and watching movies, so we do those a lot.
Step 3: Decide what you're going to do. You could play basketball with all of them, play Xbox with one of them, play some Mario Kart with them or watch a movie (we watched Fat Albert and Puss in Boots today-solid movies, 10/10).
Step 4: Enjoy. Spending time with family is very important to me and I try not to take it for granted. Having fun with them is awesome and even though it can be agitating some times, I love every second of it.